Compassionate care of Alzheimer’s Patients

Dysphagia and Dementia

Dysphagia (dis-FAY-juh) is a medical term for a swallowing disorder. According to the National Institutes of Health, swallowing problems occur in about 45% of those have been diagnosed with Alzheimer’s and other dementias. It can occur in a person with moderate to advanced dementia.  The main risk and danger is that the person who suffers from this disorder may aspirate or inhale food or liquid into the airway and lungs, thus causing pneumonia. There is also the danger of dehydration or malnutrition with the lack of sufficient intake of liquids and food.  May 20 carrot soup-482354_640

Eating/Swallowing Process

Swallowing is a complex function involving over fifty pairs of muscles and numerous nerves. Swallowing problems are often the first indicator that dementia has entered the moderate stage of the disease. The American Speech-Language-Hearing-Association (ASHA) notes that dysphagia can occur at different stages in the eating/swallowing process:

  • Oral phase – sucking, chewing, and moving food or liquid into the throat.
  • Pharyngeal phase – starting the swallowing reflex, squeezing food down the throat, and closing off the airway to prevent food or liquid from entering the airway (aspiration) or to prevent choking.
  • Esophageal phase – relaxing and tightening the openings at the top and bottom of the feeding tube in the throat (esophagus) and squeezing food through the esophagus into the stomach.
NICHD Swallowing Chart

NICHD Swallowing Chart

Dysphagia Symptoms

Caregivers can help prevent serious complications by identifying the early stages at which swallowing problems begin. Each person with this swallowing disorder is different, but some signs and symptoms may include:

  • coughing during or right after eating or drinking
  • wet or gurgly sounding voice during or after eating or drinking
  • extra effort or time needed to chew or swallow
  • food or liquid leaking from the mouth or getting stuck in the mouth
  • chest congestion after eating
  • weight loss or dehydration from not being able to eat enough.

If any of these symptoms are present, to prevent pneumonia, consult with your loved one’s physician as soon as possible. They will likely give you a referral to a specialist such as a speech or language therapist to conduct a swallowing assessment.

Making Modifications

As the dementia progresses, you may need to make modifications to foods and liquids in order for your loved one to eat and drink safely. Here are some suggestions taken from the National Institute on Aging that might help:

  1. Alternate hot and cold foods to help trigger a swallow. Cold drinks are also easier to swallow than hot drinks.
  2. Cut the food into small pieces and make it soft enough to eat.
  3. Offer soft foods, such as ice cream, protein milk shakes, yogurt, soups, applesauce, gelatin, or custard.
  4. Thin liquids, like coffee, tea, water, or broth, are hardest to swallow. Buy Thick-It to add to liquids to make them thicker. You can purchase it at most pharmacies.
  5. Don’t use a straw; it may cause more swallowing problems. Instead, have the person drink small sips from a cup. (Check out the Teepa Snow video below.)
  6. Limit the amount of milk the person drinks if it tends to catch in the throat.
  7. Sweet taste receptors remain intact through the end stage of dementia. Persons at this stage usually favor sweets and can be enticed to eat by adding sweet thickeners to their foods.
  8. Don’t hurry your loved one. They may need extra time to chew and swallow each mouthful before taking another bite.
  9. Position your loved one in an upright, sitting position, with their neck forward and chin down when swallowing. Don’t feed them if they are drowsy or lying down.
  10. In the later stages, you may have to gently stroke their neck in a downward motion and say, “swallow” to remind them to swallow.
  11. If your loved one is on medication, find out if their pills can be crushed or taken in liquid form.

Mealtimes will not always be easy, but it helps to make these as pleasant and enjoyable as possible. There will be times when your loved one will not be hungry when you’re ready to serve food. Or they may not feel like eating much at that time but get hungry at other times. In the later stages of the disease, many people lose interest in food. Consult with the doctor if they are losing weight and ask what supplements, if any, to use.

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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For more detailed information regarding dysphagia, check the National Institutes of Health website: https://www.nidcd.nih.gov/health/dysphagia.

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The Alzheimer Association has recommendations regarding late-stage Alzheimer’s caregiving that you might find helpful. Just click: https://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-late-end-stage-caregiving.asp.

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Dementia care advocate and trainer Teepa Snow provides tips regarding feeding and drinking in late stage dementia patients. This is a “must see” brief video: https://youtu.be/sNPAESrllgQ.

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Morningside Ministries has a series of dementia training videos. This one is a helpful five-minute video on “Food Cuing for Appetite and Pleasure:” https://youtu.be/cqyxvHONG18.

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Laura Michael, a dysphagia specialist, has a BS degree in nutrition and owns Dysphagia Supplies Direct, an on-line store. Her website contains four instructional videos regarding the proper use of thickeners: http://www.dysphagiasupplies.com/videos.

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Check out these recipes from the NYU Steinhardt Iron Chef Dysphagia Challenge: https://speech.steinhardt.nyu.edu/dysphagia-cookbook/#recipes.

This article is about the benefits of xanthan gum thickeners vs. modified cornstarch thickeners. You can read it here: http://thickit.com/xanthan-gum-what-is-it-and-why-does-it-matter-for-those-with-dysphagia/.

Worrying vs. Caring

I recently traveled to Guatemala. At the end of one of our excursions, our tour guide handed each of us a goodbye gift. It was a small handcrafted pouch of “worry dolls.” He explained the legend surrounding this custom.

Worrydollcraft as featured on Etsy

Worrydollcraft as featured on Etsy

Many generations ago, the indigenous people from the Guatemalan highlands created these dolls as a remedy for worrying. Before going to sleep at night, a person would tell their worry to as many dolls as necessary. Then they would place these tiny dolls in a cloth pouch and put it under their pillow. The dolls take over worrying so that the person can then sleep peacefully through the night. In the morning the person awakens without the worries that the dolls took away.

There is a Swedish proverb: “Worry often gives a small thing a big shadow.” I used to be a “worry wart” in my teen years and early adulthood. My worries usually came from anticipating the worst that could happen regarding a situation. This was the stressful part – anticipation – and usually the worst never came about. Worry was really a drain on my body and spirit. The process of maturing taught me that worries don’t change the outcome of things.  As Corrie ten Boom wrote, “Worry does not empty tomorrow of its sorrow. It empties today of its strength.”

One of my consistent worries while caring for my mother was what would happen to her if she were taken alone by ambulance from her assisted living facility to the hospital while I was at work. I describe this in my memoir, Elegy for Mom. This actually happened on several occasions. My worry was that she would not be able to describe what was wrong or the location of her pain. Consequently, the doctors wouldn’t know what to do to begin treatment. Each of those times when I arrived at the emergency room, Mom appeared calm. She seemed to know she was in a hospital. I was the frightened one – not Mom! I later found out that the nurse at Mom’s assisted living facility had given the medics a file folder containing all her health issues and medications to take along with Mom in the ambulance.

When you care for a loved one with dementia, I don’t believe you can ever be completely “worry-free.” There will be times when you will worry. You may even feel by worrying that you are doing something “useful.” Perhaps you are underestimating your ability to cope with the challenges of caring for a person with dementia. Worry can take a toll on your sleep, tax your immune system, drain your mental and physical energy, send your anxiety levels soaring, and turn into a cycle of self-perpetuating negative thinking.

Sometimes worry can be a good thing. For example, if there is an actual threat, it may spur you to take action or solve a problem. However, if you find yourself starting to become overwhelmed with worry, here are a few questions to ask yourself:

  • Is your worry productive or unproductive? Will it help you or hurt you?
  • Does worry limit you and cause you to panic or freeze from thinking clearly?
  • How much does worry interfere with your life?
  • Is the problem solvable rather than an imaginary “what if?”
Image courtesy of Stuart Miles

Image courtesy of Stuart Miles

Negative moods, like guilt and shame, even physical states like pain, tiredness, or fatigue can fuel worrying. Worry hinders rather than facilitates effective problem solving. It is not an alternative to coming up with practical ways to tackle a problem. Try these suggestions to resolve the matter:

  1. Talk about your worry to a close friend or family member. Getting it out often helps make it easier to see the real issue for what it is. A trusted family member or friend may help you find a more useful and practical perspective.
  2. Write it out. Make a worry list and then order them. Jot down what triggered the worry. What is the worst that can happen? You may start to see patterns.
  3. What is one small step you can take to start improving the situation? Can you come up with a Plan A, Plan B, or even a Plan C, if needed?
  4. Learn more about the issue. Perhaps reading about the disease, or discussing health issues with a doctor can ease your mind so that you have an idea if the situation is to be expected as part of the disease progression.
  5. Try to lift your mood if you begin to feel that worry is zapping you further. What can you do to make your life more pleasant?
  6. What early messages did you get about your capabilities? Give up the belief that worry will be the solution to the problem.
  7. Before your worries begin to overwhelm you, seek professional help.

Caregivers need all the physical, mental, and creative energies that they can muster. Save your energy for productive things, and try not to let worry drain you. Give yourself credit for challenges that you have overcome in the past. Have confidence in your ability to deal with the challenges that await you.

Get a good rest each evening in the knowledge that you did the best you could that day as a caregiver and you won’t need those worry dolls. Poet Ralph Waldo Emerson has these words of wisdom:

“Finish each day and be done with it,

you have done what you could.

Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in.

Forget them as soon as you can.

Tomorrow is a new day,

you shall begin it well and serenely.”

I wish you peace, patience, serenity, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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The Center for Clinical Interventions in Perth, Australia, has an educational module about “What? Me Worry?,”  an excellent detailed overview about worrying. Check it out here: http://www.cci.health.wa.gov.au/docs/GAD_2_2015_Worry.pdf.

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I composed a prayer based on a line from Psalm 40, to help alleviate worries. Check it out on the “Resource” section of my website: https://caregiverfamilies.com/inspiration/.

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Exercising Muscle Memory – Part 2

In Part 1, I introduced a person-centered approach to caring for a loved one with dementia. This approach is based on the philosophy of Dr. Maria Montessori: to treat the individual with respect, dignity, and helping them remain as independent as possible, for as long as possible. Feb 18 thumbnail_Braincartoonv2

It is a framework, designed to work with “muscle memory,” the type of procedural memory – the “how” of memory.

In this model, the activities of daily living, such as dressing, eating, personal hygiene, etc., are broken down into easy sequential steps. You provide the encouragement for your loved one to do these activities as much as they can. This process taps into their “muscle memory” so that they don’t lose their ability to do these simple tasks through lack of doing them.

Persons with dementia lose their ability to plan, initiate, and carry out daily activities as the disease progresses. In the early stages of illness, there may not be noticeable changes. For example, in dressing themselves, they may put on clothes that have spots and stains without realizing this. They can, however, still find their clothes and put them on in the order needed. In the middle stages, you may find that they wear the same clothes day after day, or mix colors and patterns that don’t match. They begin to have trouble buttoning buttons, or zipping zippers. In the late stages, they may put outer garments on first and undergarments on top, forgetting the proper order.

To explain how this person-centered Montessori approach works, here are a few examples using key principles mentioned in Part 1. Some organization, preparation, and patience is needed on your part as caregiver.

  1. CHOICE

Your loved one has been making choices all his/her life and needs to feel they have some control of their life. Depending on the stage of the dementia, if they can still make a selection of what clothes to wear, ask them to choose between two items. For example, would they like to wear the blue shirt or the white shirt? The black pants or the grey ones? Help make it easy for them to make a decision. You might also inform them that today is the day you go to church, or to a doctor’s appointment, or out to eat lunch. In these cases, they may want to dress up a little more than in everyday clothes.

  1. INDEPENDENCE

As caregiver, you provide the necessary encouragement your loved one requires to dress themselves. You might just need to lay out the pieces of clothing in the order they should be worn. If your loved one is in the middle stages, handing them one piece of clothing at a time may be all that is required. Prompt or cue them how to put their clothes on, button buttons, zip zippers, tie shoelaces. It may take a little extra time, but the important thing is that they do it themselves. Your patience is required here so that you aren’t tempted to take over to hurry up the process.

  1. DEMONSTRATE

As the dementia progresses, your loved one’s ability to process words will deteriorate. Showing how to do things in small steps is better than giving instructions. By using less language in your interaction, you help allow them to focus all their attention on what you are demonstrating, rather than trying to find the “right” words to respond to your questions. This also lessens their frustration as they try to imitate your actions.

On the few occasions when I helped my Mom get ready to retire at night, I stood beside her in the bathroom. Next, I gave her a warm, wet washcloth in one hand and the bar of soap in the other. Then, just rubbing my hands together, I pretended I was rubbing soap onto the washcloth. Mom responded by doing the same, washing then rinsing her face and hands. Feb 18 face cream-1327847_640After handing her the towel to dry, I brought out her favorite facial cream, “Oil of Olay.” Mom had used this toiletry product for years. Rubbing my cheek, as if to put on the cream, was a signal for Mom to do the same. It didn’t take many words – just demonstrating so that her “muscle memory” could kick in and take over.

  1. SEQUENCE

If you stop to think about it, a task as simple as brushing one’s teeth involves many steps to completion. Breaking down everyday tasks into their basic, simplest components allows your loved one to focus on one step at a time.  You want them to be successful in this task, so you may need to adjust the steps to match where they are in the disease process. Putting the toothbrush next to the tube of toothpaste on the counter may be all that is needed. In the middle stages, you may have to cue them to take off the cap, squeeze the toothpaste on the brush, wet the brush, brush up and down, rinse their mouth, etc.  In the later phase, you may even need to guide their hand as they brush their teeth, and hand them a glass of water or mouthwash to rinse. Watch so they don’t swallow the mouthwash thinking it’s something to drink.

  1. MEANINGFUL ACTIVITIES

This principle describes the introduction of activities and routines that are meaningful to our loved ones. These activities help activate their senses and stimulate their minds. To ensure success, take into account your loved one’s interests, hobbies, former occupation, likes and dislikes. The important thing is to try to plan activities where there is no right or wrong way or winners or losers. Here are a few examples:

  1. Heather O’Neil, from Yorkshire, UK, has a website, “Creative-Carer.com,” where she posts some of the therapeutic activities that she plans for her mother who was diagnosed with mixed dementia. Her mother Margaret was an artist. Each week, Heather organizes materials for an artistic activity such as card making, crepe paper flowers, etc. Her mother has won competition awards for her pieces and gives out many of her creations as gifts.
  2. Harry Urban has been living with Alzheimer’s for over thirteen years and doesn’t let his dementia get to him. His hobby is woodworking and he displays many of his creations on his Facebook page. He delights in challenging himself to carve difficult pieces.
  3. For a former fisherman, try giving him a tackle box with lures and flies to organize or the materials to make them.
  4. For a baseball fan, looking at or collecting Hall of Famer baseball cards might be enjoyable, or even just playing a game of catch.
  5. A golfer might like to practice putting golf balls on an indoor/outdoor putting mat.

Many dementia care facilities in the USA are incorporating Montessori principles. The benefits to following this person-centered approach are many but here are just a few:

  • An increase in self-esteem
  • An increase in motor skills
  • An increase in interaction
  • Stimulation of the senses
  • A sense of accomplishment
  • A reduction in anxiety.

One last recommendation – be flexible and willing to adapt to what your loved one is able to do on a certain day. What was of interest one day may not be engaging to them the next.

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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To visit the website and see photos of Heather O’Neil and her mother, go to: Creative-carer.com. Her Facebook page is www.facebook.com/CreativeCarer/.

Harry Urban’s Facebook page is www.facebook.com/Harry.Urban1/.

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To read about how Montessori methods are used with students and senior residents with mild dementia, click here: http://www.therobertsacademy.org/school/approach.html.

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Brookstone sells an indoor putting green mat for under $40.00. Check it out here: http://www.brookstone.com/pd/putting-mat-with-hazards/797547p.html.

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This 4-minute video, “Thelma’s Story,” shows the Montessori practice in use: https://youtu.be/lUfhr67oTA8

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Exercising Muscle Memory – Part 1

Practice — practice — practice! This was a kind of motto of mine as a young girl rehearsing for an upcoming piano recital. Little did I understand at the time that my music lessons and practice sessions were an effective way of developing “muscle memory.” Feb. 4 Braincartoon (2)

Wikipedia defines muscle memory as “… a form of procedural memory that involves consolidating a specific motor task into memory through repetition. When a movement is repeated over time, a long-term muscle memory is created for the task, eventually allowing it to be performed without conscious effort.” Muscle memory works when you drive a car, ride a bike, eat, tie your shoelaces, type on a keyboard, play a musical instrument, etc.

I recently came across two websites that discuss ways to encourage persons with dementia to exercise their muscle memories and focus on what they still can do. Both sites describe a person-centered Montessori approach. Based upon successful methods that were used by Dr. Maria Montessori, this approach attempts to keep a person as independent for as long as possible by focusing on tasks and habits related to procedural memory.

Maria_Montessori in 1913To digress for a moment, Dr. Maria Montessori (1870-1952) became the first female doctor in Italy in the 19th century. She was a physician, educator, and innovator. She worked with children with intellectual disabilities and developed a method to teach them to read and write. By 1910, her philosophy and method of teaching and nurturing youngsters was applied to students in mainstream schools. The emphasis is placed on self-determination and self-realization. As Dr. Montessori puts it herself, “Never help a child with a task at which he feels he can succeed.” Her teaching methods are still in use today in Montessori schools all over the world.

How does all this apply to care of our loved ones?  Persons with Alzheimer’s and dementia are often confronted with what they can no longer do, such as routine activities of daily living. They may struggle with simple tasks like dressing themselves or brushing their teeth. The key principles of the Montessori method can give you, the caregiver, an understanding of how better to focus on your loved one’s capabilities, engaging them in meaningful interactions and helping them remain as independent for as long as possible.

Alzheimer’s Australia, an advocacy agency, in conjunction with Monash University in Melbourne, Victoria, has developed a wonderful resource, “Relate, Motivate, Appreciate,” that details this person-centered approach. (See link below.) Here is a summary of the twelve key Montessori principles of engagement, as listed in this resource:

  1.  The activity should have a sense of purpose and capture the person’s interest.
  2.  Always invite them to participate.
  3.  Offer a choice whenever possible.
  4.  Talk less. Demonstrate more.
  5.  Physical skills; focus on what they can do.
  6.  Match your speed with the person you are caring for. In other words, slow down!
  7.  Use visual hints, cues, or templates.
  8.  Give them something to hold.
  9.  Go from simple tasks to more complex ones.
  10.  Break the task down into steps. Make it easier to follow.
  11.  To end, ask, “Did you enjoy doing this?” and “Would you like to do this again?”
  12.  There is no right or wrong. Think engagement.

I wish I had been aware of this approach when I was caring for my mother. At times I felt it was hit and miss when trying to engage her and keep her active. Be flexible and willing to adapt to what your loved one is able to do on a daily basis, as each day may be different. I hope you will share your experiences of your attempts to help your loved one regain control of aspects of their life and retain their abilities for as long as possible.

In Part 2 of this topic (an upcoming blog), I will delve further into four of the principles listed above, and detail specific things you can do in helping your loved one exercise their memory muscle.

Oh, and by the way, I never became a world class pianist, but I still play the piano for my own enjoyment and relaxation, albeit this memory muscle is a little “stiff!”

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!    

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Here is the link to a 72-page booklet developed by Alzheimer’s Australia, in conjunction with Monash University: http://qualitydementiacare.org.au/wp-content/uploads/AlzheimersAustralia_Montessori_Resource_WEB.pdf.

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Another website that details the Montessori methods for dementia care is: http://keepingbusy.com/learning-center/montessori-principles-for-dementia/.

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The Dementia Action Alliance has a sixteen-minute video, “Person-Centered Matters, Making Life Better for Someone Living with Dementia.” This video highlights the positive aspects about helping people live fully with dementia, told through the stories of five people living with the condition at various stages. You can watch it by going to: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5R3idi0e1eg.

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A Reflection on the Language of Touch

A hug can provide solace. A gentle massage can soothe and calm. Holding hands can reassure. In short, “touch” can be a powerful “therapy” that comforts a loved one with dementia.

Study of Dante holding the hand of Love by Dante Gabriel Rossetti

Study of Dante holding the hand of Love by Dante Gabriel Rossetti

Some of my best memories in caring for my mother center around sitting together on the porch of the assisted living facility, without saying much, but just gently stroking her hands and seeing her smile.

I realize that not all family members feel comfortable about touching or hugging their relatives. There can even be issues rooted in a fear or stigma that touching a person with dementia will result in “catching” the disease.

If you are caring for a loved one in your home, caregiving might inevitably involve touching intimate areas, like changing incontinent pads or panties, toileting, or bathing a relative of the opposite sex. How do you become comfortable with the vital role that “touch” plays?

The first step is to reflect on the nature of touch as one of our most basic human needs, no matter age or physical or mental condition. The second step might be in confronting your own reservations about touch. For a person with dementia, the need to be comforted and reassured by the loving, gentle touch of a hand or hug can be life-affirming, decreasing their feelings of anxiety, fear, or loneliness.

The reflection below was composed by Merle Stern, to guide in a deeper understanding of the importance of the gift of “touch” in your caregiving role. In her own words, Merle notes: “I remember many years ago, as though it was yesterday. I took the two week old baby from the arms of her mother and held her close to my heart. The synchronization of the baby’s heart beat with my own heart beat was a memorable experience, and at that moment I became aware of the power of touch.”

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To begin that inward journey of processing your personal experiences, you will need to withdraw to your sanctuary – that quiet place within you and surrounding you. Then, gently close your eyes and focus your awareness on your breathing. Experience the space around you and become at one with it.

Now, try to think of touching as a language: a language that speaks to the innermost sense of who we are; a language that has the potential to convey the depth of a relationship. The person whom you touch, and their response to your touch, has the ability to create a bond, and to build bridges that transcend words and invisible barriers. It simultaneously penetrates two different worlds.  

Take a moment now to gently stroke your arm. Feel the softness of your skin as your touch communicates gentleness and tenderness. Note how you are giving and receiving at the same time. After a few moments, and through the medium of your touch, try to communicate different issues; for example approval, objection, or whatever comes to your mind. Become aware of how and what you are feeling simultaneously, both as the transmitter and receiver of that touch.

Focus again on your breathing. After a few moments scan over some of your life’s experiences, making notes in your journal as you go along:

  •  The touch that conveys your joy and well being;
  •  The touch that conveys your appreciation/gratitude for help given by a stranger;
  •  You have not seen a person for a long time and you reach out with a spontaneous hug – a hug that enhances your bonding and friendship that transcends time and distance;
  •  The way you touched a child who came to you for comfort and solace;
  •  The touch that expresses “welcome,” and one that expresses “goodbye;”
  •  The difference in touch when you stroke a kitten or dog, or other pet animal;
  •  The touch that conveys your compassion, empathy, and understanding.

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Again, scan over your life and become aware of your own personal “touch history,” making notes in your journal as you go along:

 Visualize yourself as a baby, reaching out to touch your mother’s breast or comforting your teddy bear;

  •  As a young child, the experiences of being touched by your mother, father, brothers, sisters, aunts, uncles, and grandparents;
  •  As an adolescent and as an adult;
  •  As a parent to your child;
  •  As an adult child to your parent;
  •  As a spouse to your spouse.

Now reflect on your touch as a caregiver. Become aware that as you touch that person’s body, you are also touching his or her life. You invoke long forgotten memories of what once was and no longer is.

Throughout your caregiving, your touch conveys a variety of messages. Some of these messages include: your loved one is important; they are lovable; they do not need to be afraid; you are present with them on their journey.

Now, reflect on the possibility that the last touch in this person’s life may come from your hands. What would you like this last touch to convey, as you bid goodbye to your loved one who is transitioning to another realm?

Finally, take a look at your hands – the hands that will convey what words cannot. Feel your appreciation for your hands and the blessed gift of touch. Make a note in your journal of the value of this experience and how it can continue to enrich your life.

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Our experiences of bonding often center on the sense of touch and communicate much more than words ever could. The British-American anthropologist Ashley Montagu sums it up in his 1971 landmark book, Touching: The Human Significance of the Skin: “Touch conveys fondness, security, closeness, warmth, concern, and encouragement, and makes [older persons] feel an increased sense of trust and well-being.

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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Sincere thanks go to Merle Stern, my friend and mentor, who composed this reflection. Feel free to pass it on to family and friends, but please give credit to Merle and this website.

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Dave Otis, a licensed massage therapist, wrote easy directions for healthy self-massage exercises for hands, face, and neck. Check these out by going to: http://www.unh.edu/health-services/sites/unh.edu.health-services/files/media/PDF/Stress/SelfMassage.pdf.

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For a comprehensive article on “How Skilled Human Touch Can Transform Person-centered Dementia Care,” go here: https://www.nhqualitycampaign.org/files/Compassionate_Touch_White_Paper.pdf.

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My sister Marcia and I published a journal called My Blessings Journal. It can be a useful tool to introduce you to the joys of journal-keeping. To order a copy through my website click here: http://caregiverfamilies.com/book/.

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Alzheimer’s and the Senses Part Five: Touch

“To touch can be to give life,” said Renaissance painter, sculptor, architect and poet Michelangelo. I was privileged in 2014 to visit the Sistine Chapel in Rome and view Michelangelo’s fresco painting of “The Creation of Adam.” You may have seen this classic painting of God’s near-touching finger reaching out to bring “life” to Adam.

The scene is unforgettable! I wonder if Michelangelo knew that touch is the first sense developed by the body.

Michelangelo's "Creation of Adam"

Michelangelo’s “Creation of Adam”

Our sense of touch is a basic human need, a lifeline that can communicate love, safety, care, reassurance, and trust. Touch is not an emotion, but emotions are formed through the physical, psychological and spiritual effects that we experience through this unique sense. Persons with Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia do not lose their capacity for human emotion or their recognition of a caring touch.

Compared to our scientific knowledge of the other senses, our understanding of the sense of touch, and in particular how it is processed in the brain, is limited. According to neurobiologist Dr. David Linden, “genes, cells and neural circuits involved in the sense of touch have been crucial to creating our unique human experience.” Yet, writes Dr. Linden, the body’s touch circuits are “a weird, complex and often counterintuitive system.”

How the Brain Processes Touch

Our sense of touch does not have a specific place on the body where it is located, for it is found all over the body in our skin. Our skin is the largest organ in the somatic sensory system. The somatic sensory system has nerve endings and receptors that help us feel when something comes into contact with our skin.

Chart of skin

Chart of skin

When the touch, pain or heat sensors in our skin are stimulated, they send electrical impulses to our neurons. The neurons then act as a relay team, passing the electrical pulse from neuron to neuron until it reaches our spinal cord. Our spinal cord then takes the signal and sends it to our brain to translate it.

Neuroscientists have discovered that there are two distinct but parallel pathways in the brain for processing “touch” information. The first pathway is in the region of the brain called the primary somatosensory cortex. This is the region that analyzes and processes information about the “facts” of a touch, such as vibration, pressure, texture, temperature and location.

The second pathway processes social and emotional information and activates brain regions associated with social bonding and our pleasure and pain centers.

Aging and Touch

Humans crave touch. Just as babies thrive and respond to being held, as we age our need for touch remains. Unfortunately, our sense of touch steadily deteriorates as we get older. Every year, starting at around age eighteen, we lose about one percent of our tactile sense. Some researchers explain that this could be the reason elderly people are so prone to falls – they get less tactile information from the soles of their feet when wearing shoes.

The Physical and Emotional Benefits of Touch

Research studies document physical and emotional health benefits of using “touch” in caring for a person with dementia. The physical benefits include:

  • Lowering of blood pressure
  • A decrease in pain
  • An improvement in mood
  • A decrease in stress-related cortisol
  • A decrease in heart rate
  • An increase in sensory awareness.

As to the emotional benefits, touch can communicate multiple positive emotions such as love, safety, care, reassurance, trust.  Hugs, holding hands, a caress, or other physical gestures of affection can ease your loved one’s mind, help them feel less isolated, decrease their anxiety. Studies have shown that a person giving a hug gets just as much benefit as the person being hugged. For a person with Alzheimer’s, compassionate touch is a language of the human heart.

How You Can Help

1.  Active Tactile Stimulation

The brain “feels,” so tactile stimuli is brain stimulation. The most sensitive parts of our body and those with the most nerve endings are our fingertips and mouth. Each of our fingertips has about 3,000 nerve receptors.

A person with dementia naturally gravitates toward tactile stimulation when they explore the fabric of their clothing or the smoothness of an object in front of them. Every solid object has texture, temperature, and shape. They can benefit from activities that involve handling a variety of objects to experience texture. These could include: squeezable balls, sensory “blankets,” activity muffs, finger painting, “clay” work with Play-Doh.

Go for a walk in a garden or woods and let your loved one touch leaves, tree bark, and flowers. Bring the feel of the outdoors inside by filling a tray or basket with similar objects like shells and coral to replicate the seashore, or acorns, pine cones, and various branches.

Incorporate “touch” into their daily routine, like folding warm laundry, sweeping the floor, arranging flowers in a vase, drying dishes, brushing a dog’s fur coat, knitting or crocheting.

2. Passive Tactile Stimulation

My Mom always seemed to want a handkerchief in her hand. She told me it gave her a feeling of reassurance. She also enjoyed carrying around a small purse that had a few items tucked in it like a comb and coin purse.

One of the ways I found to calm and comfort Mom when I visited her in the assisted living facility was to give her a weekly manicure. A pedicure and combing/brushing hair are other forms of passive tactile stimulation.

Giving a hand, foot, neck, or upper back massage is also a way to connect and communicate. Make sure your loved one gives you permission to do so. Do not surprise them. hands-holding-togetherUse a little massage oil like lavender or lemon balm to add to the sensory experience.

When temperatures change in the fall and winter months, make sure your loved one is kept warm both inside and outdoors. They may not be able to tell you when they are hot or cold. Sitting wrapped in a soft blanket can provide comfort and warmth to an anxious person. Cover sofas or an armchair with fake fur or sheepskin.

3. Pain

Be on the alert to pain in your loved one at all stages of the disease. Pain often goes undetected, under-recognized, and under-treated in persons with dementia. Most studies suggest that the experience of pain is elevated in persons with mild to moderate Alzheimer’s disease. However, pain sensitivity in the late stages is unclear, according to Sciencedaily.com.

Beside facial expressions like grimacing or frowning, some signs that your loved one is in pain include: guarding, bracing, moaning, sighing, aggressive behavior.

The bathroom and kitchen are places where scalding and burns happen. Adjust the water heater to 120 degrees Fahrenheit, and/or install anti-scald devices for water taps. Check into automatic shut-off devices for stoves and ovens. Unplug appliances when not in use.

Michelangelo symbolized the power of touch in his magnificent painting of the act of creation.  Create opportunities each day to “give life” to your loved one. The sense of touch is truly fundamental to human communication, bonding and health.

I wish you peace, joy, courage, and patience in your caregiving today and every day!

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Read more about touch and the elderly at: http://www.comfortkeepers.com/home/info-center/senior-care/the-power-of-touch-and-what-it-means-for-the-elder#sthash.f1NaePg5.dpuf.

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Dacher Keltner, UC Berkeley psychology professor and faculty director at the Greater Good Science Center, shares insights into touch therapies in this eight-minute YouTube video: https://youtu.be/GW5p8xOVwRo.

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The Alzheimer’s Association of Australia has a “Help Sheet on Pain.” You can find it here:

https://www.fightdementia.org.au/files/helpsheets/Helpsheet-CaringForSomeone11-Pain_english.pdf.

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For easy directions about giving a hand massage, check out: http://www.wikihow.com/Massage-Someone’s-Hand.

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End-of-Life Decisions and Care

Let’s begin at the end. What do most of us wish for at the end of our lives? Dignity? Comfort? Respect? Love? These are the things I want for myself and my loved ones. If caring for my mother taught me anything, it was to be as prepared as possible for when that time came for her. november-luminous-sky-1107952_640

My experience with death in our family has been very limited. Neither I nor my siblings were present when my father passed away in the hospital in the early morning hours. Fortunately, I was present when Mom drew her last breath while she lay in a coma in a local hospital’s emergency room ten years ago. It was a peaceful passing!

I asked a friend of mine, Fr. Thomas Schroer, S.M., Ph.D., to share his thoughts and experiences with death and the dying. Fr. Tom’s mother was attended by hospice staff while in a nursing facility. He also has accompanied several dying individuals in their last hours. Fr. Tom shared   that it is important to have well-trained and caring professionals assisting families at the crisis time of a loved one’s impending death. It’s an exhausting emotional roller-coaster ride. Family members are bound to experience a range of emotions, even conflicting ones, when caring for a dying individual. In such a situation, caregivers are in need of support, as well as the dying person. “I remember so well the relief I experienced when hospice care providers arrived to assist my family during my mother’s last days,” writes Fr. Tom. “The healthcare professionals were committed to making her as comfortable as possible. We could now focus completely on supporting one another and my mother with the confidence that she was in good hands.”

Fr. Tom highly recommends reading the book, Final Gifts, by Maggie Callanan and Patricia Kelly, two hospice nurses. “As nurses for the dying,” write these two authors, “we see ourselves as the counterparts of birthing coaches or midwives, who assist in bringing life from the womb into the world. At the other end of life, we help to ease the transition from life through death to whatever exists beyond.”  As family caregivers, we increase the probability of the dying process taking place in the most lovable and caring manner possible, if we are able to envision the dying process as a “second birthing process.”

Since you want the best care possible for your loved one, a hospice provider can assist you in making that vision a reality, even in the familiar surroundings of one’s own home, if that is preferred. Health insurance will usually cover the expenses. It is important to check out in advance the reputations of the hospice providers in your vicinity. Fr. Tom notes that not all organizations are equal in terms of their professional excellence and care.

Death is part of everyone’s life cycle. However, it is rarely a topic for serious family conversation until a crisis. My family was so fortunate. Our parents took the initiative early in their retirement years to meet with a family lawyer to draft all the necessary papers for wills and advanced directives. They prepaid for plots at their local cemetery. My oldest sister was designated executor of their wills, while I was made their health-care surrogate. Following Mom’s diagnosis of Alzheimer’s and vascular dementia, I arranged for our parents to meet with a geriatric care manager/financial planner. My parents discussed these plans with all the family members. Dad kept all their important papers in a portable metal file case, with copies at the lawyer’s office. This made it easy for us to know where to look if anything happened to either one of them.

nov-writing-1149962_640Legal advanced planning is the best plan to have. This ensures the decisions you and your loved one wish will be honored without the expense, delay, or loss of legal rights that can go along with the court appointment of a guardian. If someone dies without a will, their estate goes into probate. The probate court then uses the laws of the state to decide who inherits what. If you already have formal documents in place, take a few minutes to review them now, in case they need updating.

My recommendations to caregivers include:

  1. Start the conversation with your loved one while they are still able to tell you what kind of end-of-life treatment they would accept or not accept. “The Conversation Project” offers a free starter kit online to help family members begin these discussions. (See resources below.)
  2. How would you/they want to be remembered? What matters most to you/them?
  3. What level of medical interventions do you/they want? CPR? Feeding Tube? Artificial nutrition? Pain control?
  4. Make sure end-of-life wishes are honored, not only with a living will or advanced directive, but also a POLST (Physician Orders for Life Sustaining Treatment). The POLST is a medical form that is legally recognized in many It spells out end-of-life treatments that you want or don’t want. Medical personnel, especially EMT’s who come by ambulance in a crisis MUST follow the instructions on a POLST. (See resources below.)
  5. Designate a health care surrogate for yourself and your loved one, as well as a person you trust who can serve as your agent with durable power of attorney. Consult with an attorney before making or revoking a Durable Power of Attorney.
  6. Look into what your local hospice services may have to offer if and when it comes time. If you think your loved one is nearing that time, discuss this with your family doctor. You can request an evaluation by a hospice organization yourself, but the formal request for services will usually have to come with a physician’s request.
  7. What type of spiritual practices and memorial traditions would you/they want?

Endings are extremely important and deserve our loving attention to details. Maggie Callanan notes, “Our dying is the ultimate signature on our life’s story.” Talking with family and friends, consulting with health and legal professionals, bereavement experts, and spiritual advisors can help you work through the grief and loss issues you will inevitably face. Knowing you have done all you can as a caregiver to be prepared will help you get on with life and loving and making wonderful memories in the current phase of your loved one’s life journey.

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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Many thanks to Fr. Thomas Schroer for taking time out of his busy schedule to share his thoughts about end-of-life care!

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The Conversation Project is a nonprofit organization devoted to helping families have conversations about end-of-life wishes. Their website is: http://theconversationproject.org.

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The National POLST Paradigm is a website that provides information about Physical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment: http://polst.org.

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Here is an interview with hospice worker Maggie Callanan, one of the authors of Final Giftshttps://youtu.be/kojj-OrS5Jk.

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Dr Jennifer Bute has released a series of short videos discussing dementia issues from her inside perspective as a person diagnosed with early onset dementia. Watch her seven-minute video about end-of-life issues: http://gloriousopportunity.org/dementia-issues.php.

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The Alzheimer’s Association has information to help with end-of-life planning at their website: http://www.alz.org/care/alzheimers-dementia-planning-ahead.asp#ixzz2lDd6TML2.

 

Smell, the Most Powerful Memory Trigger

Of our five senses, I believe the sense of smell is underrated and underappreciated. It has the power to evoke memories, imagination, old sentiments, and associations, some good, some not so good. Odors can cause our hearts to beat joyously, or contract with remembered grief and pain.

Relaxing in a lavender patch

Relaxing in a lavender patch

The sense of smell diminishes as we age. Persons in the early stages of Alzheimer’s disease may have subtle problems identifying odors. In fact, as I reported in an earlier blog article, a deteriorating sense of smell may even precede the onset of memory problems, and be a predictor of changes in the brain. We often think of Alzheimer’s as a disease of “memory for words and pictures.” However, it may also be a disease of “memory for sensory information” as well.

The focus of this article is to provide an opportunity to reflect, as family caregivers, on our amazing sense of smell. My mentor and friend, Merle Stern, composed the meditation below. As we pause to appreciate this powerful sense, we will come to a deeper awareness and better understanding of the need for compassion when our loved ones lose this unique sense. Hopefully, it will also help you feel more centered, particularly if it has been a tough day as a caregiver.

Merle shared with me that she remembers her mother telling her that when she went off to university, she was greatly missed. To soothe the void, her mother refrained from laundering Merle’s bed linen so that she could crawl occasionally into Merle’s bed and absorb the smell. Her mother found it soothing and comforting. Years later, when handed a crying baby, Merle took a page from her “mother’s book.”  She took a coat or sweater of the baby’s mother, placed it in her arms, and then took the baby who snuggled up, contented and happy, comforted by the smell of its mother.

With these thoughts in mind, please take a few minutes to find a quiet place and a comfortable position so that you can enter into this meditation without distraction.

Let yourself drift in time and space to a scent that ignites memories you wish to recall. The scent might be that of a person or a place (like a kitchen with a wood burning stove where everyone congregated around the table to share stories.) The scent might be from an object, such as a cup of freshly brewed morning coffee, your favorite perfume that you received as a gift from a loved one, or a special flower that grew in your family’s garden.

Breathe deeply with your eyes open. Imagine fusing yourself with the smell so that it is an extension of you and you are an extension of it. With each breath you inhale as you absorb the scent, you become an extension of it. When you exhale, the scent becomes an extension of you. You become the scent; the scent is your breath. You are recognized by this scent. It is in your pores, your body cells, in your blood, in your being.

Now gently close your eyes. Visualize in your mind’s eye the form your scent has taken. How do you see it? What is the color? Is there a luminous quality? What is the shape? Reach out and touch it, making contact with its shape and texture. It exudes an odor different from the one you chose. As you absorb its color, its luminous quality, its shape, texture, and smell, visualize this new form it now takes within you.

october-22-cup-of-coffee-photo-montage-488177_1280It emerges like a symphony and you can hear music playing, created from all the smells you love such as: chocolate, freshly baked homemade bread, lilacs, lavender, apples, coffee. This symphony of smells breathes new life into you. You revel in the radiance of the smell. You feel your body nourished by it. You wake up in the morning to this smell and fall asleep surrounded by this smell. You begin to feel renewed and ready to evaluate your life as a caregiver.

Take a few moments in quiet reflection. When you feel ready, open your eyes and come back to your surroundings, feeling revived and refreshed.

Spend a few minutes journaling about this experience. At times, we as caregivers might feel like we’re caught up in a whirlwind of emotions and thoughts. Ask yourself the following questions and write down your answers. That way you can come back from time to time and read what you’ve written to re-charge yourself:

  • What is missing in my life at this time? Is it solitude, communion with others, socialization, etc.?
  • How can I be more sensitive to the changing senses that my loved one may be experiencing because of the disease?
  • What can I do to enhance the quality of my life and that of my loved one?
  • What concrete plans will I make to incorporate these finding in my life?
  • Envisage your life emerging from this vantage point. What will it look like?

Our sense of smell is ten thousand times more sensitive than any of our other senses. May we come to appreciate this marvelous wonder of the human body! Helen Keller puts it so beautifully: “Smell is a potent wizard that transports you across thousands of miles and all the years you have lived.”

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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Please feel free to pass on this reflection to family and friends, but please give credit to Merle Stern and this website. I’d love to get your reactions and feedback about the meditation. Just jot me a note in the comments section below.

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If you’d like information about “smell training,” I’d recommend you watch this ten-minute video by Chris Kelly who is affiliated with the Monell Chemical Senses Center: https://youtu.be/wtAkWHN2xhc.

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For an inside look at how a person with dementia experiences the sense of smell, please check out this blog, “Welcome to Dementialand:” https://welcometodementialand.wordpress.com/2016/09/19/what-you-smell-in-dementialand/.

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Alzheimer’s and the Senses Part Three: Smell

Freshly baked cherry pie. Roast turkey. Warm mulled cider. Do the thoughts of these smells have you salivating? Old Spice men’s aftershave lotion (my Dad’s favorite). Skunk spray. Lilacs in bloom. Ammonia. Sweaty clothes. What memories do these odorants arouse? october8-nose-smelling-flower-adult-19033_640

Our incredible sense of smell serves many functions. It is a “portal” to our emotions. It is one of the drivers of what we eat and drink. Our ability to smell alerts us to possible dangers, and is critical to our good health and quality of life.

How Our Sense of Smell Works

The average human being, it is said, can recognize up to 10,000 separate odors. Our human olfactory (smell) system has approximately four hundred different receptors. These enable us to detect and identify thousands of odorants. Odorants are microscopic molecules released by substances around us that become airborne. When we breathe or sniff the air, these odorants are drawn into our nose, entering a complex system of nasal passages.

Lining a portion of these nasal passages is the olfactory epithelium, a thin sheet of mucus-coated sensory tissue located high inside the nose. The odorant molecules we breathe in settle into the mucus, making contact with and stimulating the specialized olfactory sensory cells, called sensory neurons. Each of these forty million different olfactory neurons has one odor receptor. These nerve cells connect directly to the brain.

october-8-nose-chartEach nerve cell has thin threadlike projections called olfactory cilia which float in the mucus. Olfactory cilia contain the molecular wherewithal for detecting and starting the process to recognize the odors, and for generating an electrical signal to be sent to the brain.

Electrical signals are sent to the brain along a thin nerve fiber known as an axon. Axons from the millions of olfactory receptor cells bundle together to form the olfactory nerve. Olfactory receptor cells send electrical messages via the olfactory nerve to the olfactory bulb.

Odor information eventually travels to the limbic system, the part of the brain involved in emotion and memory. Other odor information goes to the olfactory cortex where thought processes take place. Cross-connections between the limbic system and the cortex may be essential in forming our emotionally-laden and lifelong olfactory memories. The odor memories we make as children last many years.

Odorants reach the olfactory sensory cells in two ways: 1) by inhaling through the nose; 2) by chewing our food aromas are released through the channel that connects the roof of the throat to the nose.nose-and-mouth-are-connected This is one reason why, when we are congested due to a sinus infection, flu, or a head cold, this channel is blocked, affecting our ability to smell and taste our food.

Our sense of smell is also influenced by what is called the common chemical sense. This sense involves thousands of nerve endings, especially on the moist surfaces of our eyes, nose, mouth and throat. These nerve endings help us sense irritating substances – like the tear-inducing power of an onion, or the coolness of menthol.

Types of Smell Disorders

According to the National Institutes of Health, Senior Health, there are several types of smell disorders depending on how the sense of smell is affected.

  • Hyposmia occurs when a person’s ability to detect certain odors is reduced.
  • Anosmia is the complete inability to detect odors.
  • Parosmia is a change in the normal perception of odors, such as when the smell of  something familiar is distorted, or when something that normally smells pleasant now smells foul.
  • Phantosmia is the sensation of an odor that isn’t there.

The Importance of Smell  

Our sense of smell can serve as a first warning signal, alerting us to spoiled food, the odor of a natural gas leak or dangerous fumes, the smoke of a fire. When smell is impaired, it can also lead to a change of eating habits. Some people may eat too little and lose weight, or eat too much and gain weight. In severe cases, loss of smell can lead to depression.

Assessments for Loss of Smell

Serious smell loss can be caused by nasal obstruction that requires corrective surgery or by chronic viral infections with swelling that require special medications. Otolaryngologists are physicians who specialize in diseases of the ear, nose, and throat, including problems affecting taste and smell. An accurate assessment of smell loss includes:

  • Physical examination of the ears, nose, and throat.
  • Personal history including exposure to toxic chemicals or trauma.
  • Smell tests.
  • Discussion of treatment options, such as surgery, antibiotics, or steroids.

Alzheimer’s, Dementia and Olfactory Testing

An impaired sense of smell is normal as we age. Older people become less adept at identifying smells. Researchers estimate that more than one-third of adults over age seventy have olfactory deficits.

Losing our sense of smell could be a sign of brain damage. The sense of smell is often the first sense to go in cognitive decline, even before memory loss. It’s not the nose’s sensitivity that diminishes, but the brain’s capability of identifying what the odors are.  However, not all individuals with smell loss will develop a brain-related disorder.

Olfactory testing is gaining attention as researchers are discovering that changes in odor identification and loss of ability to smell may be an early biomarker in identifying Alzheimer’s, Parkinson’s, and other neurodegenerative disorders. Multiple studies have demonstrated a high correlation between Alzheimer’s disease and the presence and build up of beta amyloid protein and tau pathology in the areas of the brain that help us detect and perceive odors.

In one study, researchers at the University of Florida asked over ninety participants to smell a spoonful of peanut butter at a short distance from their nose. Participants included persons with a confirmed early stage Alzheimer’s diagnosis, persons with other forms of dementia, and those who had no cognitive or neurological problems. Only those with a confirmed diagnosis of early stage Alzheimer’s had trouble smelling the peanut butter, with their left nostril. The difference in smell between left and right nostril is unique to the disease. Currently, a smell test is not used as a diagnostic tool, but only to confirm an Alzheimer’s diagnosis. The theory is that, as dementia begins and progresses, the parts of the brain, particularly on the left side, that distinguish odors start to deteriorate. The brain is less capable of identifying smells.

At the 2016 Alzheimer’s Association International Conference in Toronto, researchers at Columbia University Medical Center, New York, reported on a study of 397 participants with an average age of 80. The study tested the predictability of dementia transition and cognitive decline using the 40-item University of Pennsylvania Smell Identification Test (UPSIT). october-8-smell-testThe test involved a scratch-and-sniff test of familiar scents like turpentine, lemon, licorice, and bubble gum. Participants were followed for four years. Their conclusions were that odor identification impairments were predictors of the transition to dementia.

How You Can Help

Smell ensures we maintain our personal hygiene and offers us an essential interaction with the world around us. Smell is essential for giving us pleasure from simple things such as flowers and food. For many people smell also helps to re-create memories.

Declines in the sense of smell are not obvious to detect. Although smell is not directly life threatening, it can still impact one’s quality of life. Nutrition and safety concerns are heavily linked to smell. People who have total or partial loss of the sense of smell are almost twice as likely to have some kinds of accidents than people who have normal smell function: cooking-related accidents; exposure to an undetected fire or gas leak; eating or drinking spoiled foods or toxic substances.

1) A Medical Checkup

Since changes in a person’s smell can occur for numerous reasons, schedule a medical checkup to ensure that there is no tumor, polyps, physical blockage or condition that might require treatment.

2) Preventing a Fire or Gas Leak

Your loved one may not be able to tell or smell that he or she left something burning on the stove or that gas is leaking and causing danger. Place sensors in their houses that can detect and warn of gas or smoke, and ones that can pick up the odor of dangerous airborne chemicals. Make sure smoke detectors are still working and change batteries on a regular basis. There are also items such as the “Fire Avert” detector. This invention detects a stove fire by smoke rather than heat. When triggered by the sound of a smoke detector, it shuts off power to the stove. (See below for description details.)

3) Labels on Bleach and Other Chemicals

Make sure that bottles of bleach, ammonia, and other chemicals are clearly marked in large letters, or kept locked away so they are not mistaken for liquids to drink.

4) Ensuring a Healthy Appetite

About 95% of what we think is taste is actually smell. With loss of smell, foods may taste different or have little or no taste. Plan meals that contain foods with different flavors, spices, and textures (e.g. creamy, crispy, crunchy). october-smell-herbs-restaurant-939436_640Try experimenting with a variety of spices and fresh herbs. To prevent malnutrition, ensure that the food your loved one consumes has appropriate levels of vitamins and nutrients.

5) Marinate Meat and Fish

One way to add a lot of flavor to meats and fish is to soak them in a marinade for a few hours or even overnight. Grocery stores carry a variety of prepared marinades, or you can make your own with simple pantry ingredients. Keep any foods in the refrigerator when they’re being marinated so that they remain safe to eat. Once the food is done marinating, cook it as you usually would and have your loved one try it. It just may be that what they previously couldn’t taste well now tastes great.

6) Preventing Food Spoilage

When shopping for food, try to buy in small portion sizes rather than bulk. If you do buy in bulk, then divide food into one-portion size individually sealed packages to store and cook.  Check the pantry shelves, refrigerator and freezer at least once a week for outdated, moldy and spoiled food.

7) Daily Hygiene

Many persons with smell loss have no idea that they have body or clothing odor, even if they do the “sniff” test. If they realized this, most would be embarrassed. If just the thought of bathing or showering your loved one makes you cringe, take a look below at the California Central Chapter’s recommendations and tips.

Avoid pointing out that clothes they are wearing are dirty or smelly. This puts your loved one on the defensive and could set up an argument. Instead, remove the soiled clothing from their room at night once your loved one is sound asleep. They’ll forget about it the next morning if there’s something else handy to put on. You might also purchase identical outfits, so that one can be washed while the other is worn.

8) Mold and Mildew

When you walk into the home, is there a musty smell? Your loved one may not be able to notice this smell. It is due to mold or mildew which are both fungi spores and could become a health problem. There are cleaning solutions available on the market. Air movement is also important for removing moisture and odors.  

Understanding the loss of one’s sense of smell and its associated problems will surely maximize your loved one’s quality of life, help them retain their independence longer, and even avert a dangerous accident.

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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( Sources used in preparing this article: 1. National Institutes of Health/Senior Health; 2. National Institute on Deafness and Other Communication Disorders; 3. The Monell Chemical Senses Center; 4. Alzheimer’s Association/AAIC.)

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Watch this four-minute TED-Ed animated explanation of our remarkable sense of smell: http://ed.ted.com/lessons/how-do-we-smell-rose-eveleth.

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To read more about the Fire Avert product, go to: http://www.firerescuemagazine.com/articles/print/volume-8/issue-1/professional-development/firefighter-s-invention-stops-kitchen-fires.html. This product is available through the Alzheimer Store. You can get a 10% discount by placing your order through my website: http://caregiverfamilies.com/products/.

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Find good tips on bathing with this newsletter from the California Central Chapter of the Alzheimer’s Association: http://www.alz.org/cacentral/documents/Dementia_Care_32-_The_Battle_of_the_Bathing.pdf.

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Dementia care advocate and trainer, Teepa Snow, has a short video that describes the loss of smell:  https://youtu.be/j9FFLaymycg.

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This four-minute video on problems with smell is by the National Institutes of Health: http://nihseniorhealth.gov/problemswithsmell/aboutproblemswithsmell/video/smell1_na.html?intro=yes.

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Eyes: A Reflection on our “Windows” to the World

The human senses are our contact to our environment. Perhaps the most important organs of sense are our eyes. An English proverb attests: “Eyes are the window of the soul.”  

Eyes: Our Windows to the World

Eyes: Our Windows to the World

In Part Two of my blog series on dementia and the senses, I focused on eyesight. Our eyes not only connect us with our surroundings, but help us maintain sharpness of our minds.

I often take my eyesight for granted. But the eyesight of persons with Alzheimer’s and dementia may change as the disease progresses. This will cause them to perceive and interpret their environment differently.

One of my favorite poets, Rumi, wrote, “Everything that is made beautiful and fair and lovely is made for the eye of one who sees.” With the following reflection, I hope to focus your awareness as a caregiver on seeing, appreciating, and “experiencing” objects in your daily life and surroundings. It was composed by my mentor and friend, Merle Stern.

Take a few moments to relax. Let your worries drift away as you dwell in appreciation of our remarkable sense of sight.

Find the time of day when you know that your life will be without distractions, not easily disturbed, and therefore an opportunity for reflection. Find a spot where you know there will not be any external intrusion. Take a comfortable position whether sitting or lying down.

After you have settled, focus your awareness on your breathing. Experience the movement of your breath as you quietly breathe in and out. Now feel your entire body in rhythm with your breathing.

With your eyes still open, scan your surroundings. Allow your eyes to settle on something to which you feel drawn. Depending where you are, it might be a flower, an arid landscape, a tree, an empty vase, a piece of furniture that you hope to refinish, a precious memento like a trophy, plaque, or favorite painting. september-20-vase-of-flowers-with-book-1329155_640

Become aware of what you are experiencing as your eyes settle on this object. What is your sight communicating to you? Even though you have seen this object before, somehow it is as if you are seeing it for the first time. Feel yourself drawn to connect to what you are seeing. Become aware of the feelings generated within you. Do you feel relaxed, serene, anxious, restless, or distracted by suddenly remembering you had something else to do?

Now engage in a dialogue in order to develop a relationship with your chosen object.  Formulate your own questions that specifically apply to that object. For example, had I chosen an empty vase, these are some of the questions I would pose:

  • I notice you do not have any flowers. Are you often without flowers?
  • Do you like having water and flowers in you?
  • How do you feel when you do not have any flowers?
  • Do you feel you are just on display?
  • Do you feel that there is a purpose to your existence? If so, what is it?
  • Are you here because you were given as a gift? Are you appreciated as a gift?
  • Do you have any favorite flowers, and if so what kind?
  • How do you feel when the flowers are gone?
  • How do you feel when the flowers have died but not removed, and the water emits an unpleasant smell?

After you have had all your questions answered, and you feel that you know your chosen object, take a moment and absorb what you are experiencing.

Now gently close your eyes. You are deliberately closing out light. Notice how your environment changes? Take a moment and absorb what you are experiencing. What is it that resonates with your being, e.g., the emptiness of the vase? What has awakened inside of you? How has the sight of the chosen object connected with what you are experiencing at this given moment in time? In the darkness you cannot see the object, but you know it is there. What are you experiencing? What is the difference between seeing the object in light, and knowing it is there in the darkness even though you cannot see it?

When you are ready, gently open your eyes and come back to the room.

What is the value of this experience for you? How can you be more sensitive to your loved one’s changing perception of their environment? Take a few minutes to write your reflections in your journal.

I wish you peace, patience, and joy in your caregiving today and every day!

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Many thanks to Merle Stern, my friend and mentor, for composing this meditation. Feel free to pass it on to friends and family, but please give credit to Merle and this website.

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Here is a unique version of the song, “What a Wonderful World,” sung by the English boys’ chorus, Libera. The lyrics describe seeing the bountiful beauties of this world: https://youtu.be/b4nmVhnGtDw.

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My younger sister Marcia and I recently published a journal called My Blessings Journal. MyBlessingsJournalIt can be a useful tool to introduce you to the joys of keeping a journal. You can order a copy through my website: CaregiverFamilies.com/book/.

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